"average" life?

you've probably heard about it...

you either love it or hate it.

I mean, you probably know what I'm talking about.

but I want you to install this set of thinking.

going from average, ordinary, moderate.

mediocre...

to becoming the rich guy in your small city.

everyone knows you have fuck tone of money.

but nobody knows how you made it all.

silent grind, not telling anyone, even your parents.

that's the mental shift I recently discovered...

and I want to tell you about it.

so, let me start off with asking you a question..

why are you seen as average rn?

is it because when you look at your bank account, you see $24.07?

or, because the girlfriend you now have, isn't your dream girl?

and people observing you, walking back from the gym, in the dark.

they know, it's human psychology 101.

it's creepy, but they know you're unhappy.

because, listen...

your character is viewed by other people, as someone who'll make it.

and the universe is trying to tell you that.

giving you subtle hints, now and then.

I could say, you're missing them by accident and you just can't notice.

but bro.

the real harsh truth of this is..

your autistic brain simply can't believe it's happening.

you already read my posts, you already know you're destined for success, right?

you know that... but you haven't changed yet.

you're not the person you want to be yet.

i'm guessing you want to be a successful businessman, living in complete freedom.

not having to worry about daddy telling you off for being late to work.

these thoughts give you a happy feeling, and ik it.

so, why aren't you there yet?

it's easy to ask you why.

but actually, why?

why have you not become the person you want to become?

I mean it's right there, served to you on a silver platter.

all the info in the world, from the most successful greats in history.

you can literally go on chatgpt and start asking it questions...

"how did jeff bezos get rich?"

"I want to be a marketing genius like alex hormozi, show me how pls"

and with a few clicks on your keyboard...

you have all the answers, right?

so it should be easy getting to your final destination.

your autistic brain has been satisfied with the answers chatgpt gave you.

but, you already know from being on this silent grind.

you will NOT get any results, by not taking action.

so, let's dive deeper into this, I will teach you the way I used to beat this problem.

and you know already, that to get to success you'll need two things...

a car and a destination.

getting from point A to point B.

so, we already have the destination part sorted.

it's your dream goal, it's the things you visualise yourself in 24/7.

but, what is your car?

in other words... you need to figure out how you're getting to the destination.

the answer is in front of you, and it's probably this.

and it's probably not a lack of discipline, because you wouldn't be reading this far if you was a normal guy.

but rather it's a greater mental challenge...

you have not changed because you're still at this stage of your life where you feel too comfortable, so you reject change.

like going to the gym, yk it's a healthy habit to do.

but at this point in your life, it's almost on autopilot.

you don't even think about doing a 2h leg session, you just go and do it.

and the one reason it's happening?

you feel comfortable doing it, it makes you happy.

it's that one thing that you know how to do.

but as an entrepreneur, it's actually bad for you.

in theory you can just do that, and you'll be fine.

but you want to strive for more, you have this burning desire in you that needs to be satisfied.

so... my point is that you're not seeing the bigger picture.

let's say you want to be a 10K/Month entrepreneur.

but, instead of doing the boring work that you know you need to do on your business.

you go the gym, smash out a leg workout and rest after.

it's viewed as healthy by other people, you're productive.

you're just working on your body and looking good.

but, in terms of your business success.

you've flopped massively, and you know the reason why.

I mean, it's common sense.

everything that is happening with your life is your fault, but you probably knew that already.

but if you knew that already, why do i keep telling you?

it's because you still don't see the possibility.

yk everything that I say to be true.

you look at your phone, whether it's late at night or early in the morning before school.

and your mind thinks "fuck, this guy is right"

giving you a glimpse of hope, that maybe all this is actually possible.

and I'm here to tell you that it is.

against all odds, I was in your spot not long ago.

just last year, I was still at uni, studying a boring subject.

waking up tired each day, dreading to drive there and learning absolutely fuck all for 8h/day.

I was in the worst mental place at the time, and I didn't know how to escape it.

deep down, I knew there's something more to life, that I need to lock in and find it myself.

so... one simple trick I used to escape the teacher's voice and find the treasure in this.

I sat in the back of the class, black hoodie on, noise cancelling on.

and successful great minds talking to me for 8h straight.

talking about business, mindset, etc.

and when it was time for lunch/break.

I didn't hesitate to just go off grid for a while, eat my lunch while on a walk.

whilst still listening to the successful guys.

I didn't care about building meaningless friendships with people in my class.

they were all broke, all them had broke mindsets.

why would i surround myself with them trying to small talk me.

when I could simply listen to the greatest minds in human history, write down what they're teaching and succeed eventually.

so... that's what I did bro.

and I know this resonates with you big time.

I'm guessing you're 17-25 rn, trying to find the wisdom you need in these words.

this is probably the hardest mindset and change in your life, and you will be called a narcissist and a bad person for it.

but here it is :

but, as you probably now by now.

success is about constant sacrifices.

this is a harsh lesson that you will learn sooner or later.

but this is how an entrepreneur thinks, and I'm still learning new things as I go.

you'll have days of success, the days where you feel like you're getting closer to your dream state.

however, there will be days where you just feel proper shit, you don't want to do the work.

the grind has had taken a toll on you, and you just want to stop.

because you can't see any results, you're not a 10K/Month yet.

who would still do the work?

grinding on your business for 2 months straight and having nothing to show for it.

it's shit, ik that.

but, the reality of it is that it's a part of the process.

in other words... your mind has been fried by the instant gratification.

let me explain.

you load up a video game on your pc, and you know there's a finish line.

of course, you just need to play for couple hours and... boom game completed

same goes for tt/ig, you open it and you know you only need to scroll down a couple times to find a video that will make you smile.

the modern society brainwashed you into thinking that getting things instantly is the ONLY way.

so... one question comes to mind right now.

why tf would they do that? why would they basically cockblock you from succeeding?

because in their minds, they want to keep you broke.

you're easier to manipulate, and tbh it's so easy to control a broke man's fate.

just look at squid games, people are literally dying and killing each other for money.

they're all in massive debts, and in their brain the only way to escape the pain they're experiencing...

is to get that money, no doubt about it.

by all means, thank fuck we don't need to start slaughtering each other for money.

and there's actual easier ways to make money rn.

but tell me what's the point of having a destination.

if you don't want to get in the car and start driving.

so... that's what bring me down to the main point of this mini essay.

if I was to start over my journey, and be "normal" again.

because that's what I recently had this mindset shift as well.

don't miss this one.

take that seriously.

I don't look at myself as "normal" anymore.

simply put, when I think of a "normal" guy...

all my eyes can see is... a man who works in an office, listening to daddy 24/7, earning minimum wage, unhappy with his life.

so, what am I saying is, whenever I look at myself in the mirror in the morning.

I don't see a normal person anymore.

it's crazy to write about tbh, but hear me out.

it makes no sense to other people, but for me and you this is the only way of living.

the outlier mentality, the early cold mornings, late night walks from the gym in complete darkness.

and sitting locked away in your room, grinding on your craft.

it's something I've been thinking about for a long time.

to others it's not sustainable, they can't do it.

they can't see themselves as this identity.

but bro, to us it's the real "normal".

not going to parties, no video games.

honestly, just filling your time with the grind.

I'm 24 now, there's 1,951 days until I'm 30.

I remind myself of the count every morning, I have to manually write it down.

but is this really the right course of thinking?

for me it is, because I know, I'm working towards something greater.

and as you may already know, at 30 years old all men are at their peak.

this is something I learnt from 1STMAN a while ago...

if you stay grinding in your 20s... you'll have a massive advantage in life by 30.

others your age will NOT be able to catch up onto you tbh.

that's all there is to it.

I can't wait till I'm older honestly, I'll have everything i dream of.

30 years old... a penthouse in New York, financial freedom, 11/10 housewife without socials.

it's inevitable, and it gives me hope.

hope to keep pushing forward.

you just have to sacrifice these years.

hear me out on this... it's an easy choice for me.

but if you said at any point of reading this, that you want this too.

you should probably follow my steps to get your desired outcome.

make the switch, it's all mindset.

but this is alot to take it... here's what I want to stick with you.

it's the start of new year... new you?

everyone around said they'd lock in this year, that this year will be different.

but, you see... they will fall off and go back to the "normal" state without a right mindset.

you bro, you're different I can feel it.

you think others are sat in their room reading a mini essay on how to stop being "average"?

fuck no, they are sat in their room, waiting for another game of fortnite to start.

life is 100000x better if you look better, make more money than your teacher, have girls flocking to you.

it's common sense tbh.

but common sense isn't common practice.

take it as you will.

enjoy the grind.

sg.

P.S there's a lot of mindset shifts in this email...

but it is just an email at the end of the day.

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I'll see you on the other side.

love, sg.